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The Power of Sexual Desire

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Quick Facts

-Our sexual desire is usually so strong that we aren’t fully conscious of it! And anything that’s subconsciously part of ourselves controls us from the backseat.

-We can realize the full extent of our sexual desire by sitting and thinking/saying the words, “I am aware of my sexual desire.” Once you are fully conscious of it, you control it instead of the other way around!

-Eating food that makes our intestines inflamed (especially crappy starch) is not a good idea if we want to experience the full extent of our sexual desire.

Intro

Warning: This is one of my explicit posts! If you’re unwilling to read about sexual stuff I greatly recommend you take the red pill and continue 😉

Sexual desire is a feeling that many (if not all) of us feel on a regular basis. Most of us know it’s powerful but I’m not certain if we know exactly how powerful sexual desire can be. It’s so powerful, and it’s such a controlling force in so many people’s lives that I’ll write about it and lay my findings on the table for you!

Why Is This Important?

Why should we care about how powerful sexual desire is? Isn’t it simply something amazing that should be capitalized on/left to be what it is?

I think it’s important to talk about this because many of us are controlled by our sexual desire and because their pursuit for sexual gratification ultimately destroys/takes over their life. Sexual desire is something healthy and pleasurable for many of us, but for some, it’s manifesting as a detrimental energy instead of a positive/regenerative energy, and these are the people I want to write to 🙂

Sigmund Freud

Sigmund Freud was one of the most famous and effective psychoanalysts in the history of mankind, and I simply want to point out that he equated suppressed sexuality as a sole cause of any psychological problem that anyone could possess. This theory was found to be mostly incorrect by his student Carl Jung, however, this is exactly how powerful sexual desire is – that is, one of the most skilled and insightful psychoanalysts in history thought it to be the root of all psychological disease.

It’s very possible that our psychological problems could be caused by sexual suppression, at least in part. It’s often the case that psychological problems, and especially the solutions to these problems, don’t have much or anything to do with sexuality. I’ve personally experienced this so I understand that it’s accurate 🙂

Usually, It’s Subconscious

When sexual power is controlling our lives in a detrimental way there is usually one common theme between each and every problem: the thoughts, beliefs, and feelings causing the issue are subconscious!

So for example, let’s say you’re a hard worker, and/or you’re willing to work for long periods of time throughout the day. You’re single, but a sexual person comes into your life and seduces you. You stop working so hard, you spend more and more time with them, you spend a ton of money to take them out and be with them… 

But it turns out that they’re unable to support themselves and that they want you to support them! You accept, and the two of you try to work it out but you’ll eventually have to break up because you have to work as hard (if not harder) than you used to and they’re taking the money and not really giving anything back. Something like that often doesn’t work in the long term.

This is one of the many possible scenarios that can occur because of subconscious sexual beliefs and energy. If the worker in our story knew that all they wanted was a good sexual partner all along they would have saved some time, money, and pain in the long run by consciously balancing what they wanted to do and what they needed to do.

What We Can Do

While sexual desire is extremely powerful we can still control our thoughts, beliefs, and feelings! 

What we shouldn’t do is suppress our sexual desire. We are subtly (and sometimes not-so-subtly) encouraged to do so by religion, the corporately-minded, and many other people/events in our life, but instead, we should become conscious about everything that has to do with our sexual desire! This means asking ourselves the question, “what are my sexual desires and why?” and following through by answering ourselves as honestly as we possibly can. Being conscious of ourselves is a good idea anyway so I commend you for doing this 🙂

After we answer the questions and become fully conscious of our sexuality we then have 2 options: we can leave it be as it is or we can change our preferences/create new beliefs and turn-ons! This is especially helpful to know if we have detrimental sexual beliefs and/or turn-ons because once we become conscious of them we can choose to change them!

Final Thoughts

Something I’ve noticed is that crappy starch (chips, fries, etc) makes my gut inflamed and therefore kills (or inhibits) any sexual desire I felt before I ate it. I’m not sure if this is the same for you but I recommend staying off of stuff like that, especially if you’re about to do the subconscious work I outlined above. Foods with healthy starch include real potatoes and real rice!

Also, once you feel what I like to call “regenerative sexuality” and “regenerative passion,” you can act within that energy and enjoy it with little to no problems whatsoever. To me, regenerative sexuality and passion  feels like serotonin, DMT, testosterone, and oxytocin combined 🙂

Conclusion

Thank you for reading my article! This stuff is important to me so I appreciate your attention, and I’ll see you in the next post!

The Individuation Process: Why It’s Important!

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Quick Facts

-Some of us find meaning in disassociating from society and become a whole, authentic individual!

-The individuation process often includes meditation, the subjective discovery of who we really are, and the integration of the parts of our personality that are ignored, pushed away, or unnoticed!

Intro

The individuation process is something that, while painful, strange, and sometimes overwhelming, is one of the more important things you can do in your life! It helps bring you from a state of unconsciousness to a state of self-awareness, and my argument is that self-awareness is worth the process it often takes to reach it!

What Is The Individuation Process?

Carl Jung was a famous psychoanalyst who lived in the late 1800s and early 1900s. Some argue that he was (and still is) the greatest and most effective psychoanalyst in the history of mankind, and the reasoning for these assertions became clear after I read his books! He was (at least) a genius, and I make this conclusion after the application of his methods played a role in healing/integrating someone who was as broken as I was. It’s one of those instances where if his methods could help me they definitely have a high chance of helping you!

His method called the individuation process isn’t necessarily a method, rather it was him writing down a set of conclusions based on what he observed in himself and others. The details of the process and the process itself are different for each individual, however, he observed some common patterns experienced by many of the people who began such a journey. These are:

The Shadow Archetype

The Anima/Animus

The Self

The shadow archetype is an archetype composed of all of the traits you suppress, deny, and/or ignore within yourself. Jung observed that integrating these traits is often (if not always) the first stage of the individuation process and arguably the most important. Consciously integrating your shadow allows you to gain control of it instead of the other way around, and I’ve personally experienced this.

The anima is the feminine component of the male and the animus is the masculine component of the female. The man projects his anima onto the females of his life and the woman projects her animus onto the males of her life, and integrating this part of yourself is another step towards becoming psychically whole.

Then there’s the self. The self is described as the wholeness of your psyche, which is distinguished from the ego (the ego is a part of the totality of the psyche). It’s often represented by the wise old man and woman, although personally, I experience it as source.

These three landmarks (mind marks?) are common to experience in one form or another, although most (if not all) of the individuation process happens differently for you than for everybody else. This process also seems to bring different people to different “endstates,” and I describe an endstate as a state of mind that’s at or near the end of the individuation process, and it is a state in which one can be considered to be enlightened.

Why It’s So Important

The most notable change I experienced throughout this process was how much true bliss I began to feel. Before I started I was quite the anxious mess, and 3 years later the experience is quite different in a good way! When people talk about enlightenment I don’t know if they understand what they’re talking about – yes, part of it is sunshine and rainbows, but another part of it is coming to terms with the darker, ignored, more sinister parts of life; even the buddha saw the streets beyond his father’s castle before he reached his enlightenment! Perhaps this isn’t always the case, but I suspect that facing and integrating the less desirable aspects of your personality will provide you with much meaning, positive control, and bliss.

Another reason why it’s important is that it shows you what’s beyond the herd mind (or the acquired mind as Jung would say). Staying within the herd mind for too long will probably result in a less-than-desirable life, whereas the individuation process brings you into a state of wholeness. Or, in other words, being relatively unconscious of yourself will probably breed suffering, and being relatively conscious of yourself will probably breed success and happiness!

And of course, you get to explore your inner world while you do it. Your inner world is something amazing, something that’s meaningful in and of itself, and the more you go into it with the intent of becoming psychically whole the better you’ll feel, and the better life will be!

My Personal Experience

I grew up with a narcissistic father and a very submissive/manipulative mother as my parents. I was the oldest child which didn’t help much, growing up was really tough – my mind was warped, my self-esteem didn’t exist, I had to walk on eggshells all of the time, they didn’t truly care about me or my opinions, I was forced to homeschool and miss out on crucial socialization, it was religion or hit the road – the list goes on and on. I finally moved out of their house and began to heal from the deep, deep depression I was suffering from, and a large part of that was my journey through the integration process over a period of 3 years!

It was pretty grueling, especially at first – I faced my dark thoughts and feelings, disidentified from them, reintegrated them, and “matured” them into something useful and regenerative. I faced my insecurities, my shame, my fears, and angers… And after a while, it started to become fun! Nowadays I enjoy facing the dark/undesirable parts of my being because the individuation process works so well for me. 

I want to share what worked for me in my time of darkness – it was, specifically, the choice to heal and become everything I wanted to become. Everything else came after that, and I can genuinely say that I’m healed and integrated largely because of the individuation process itself 🙂

Tips and Tricks

There are, however, some things I wish I knew before I started! 

-It’s best to cultivate an open mind, even if you already have one. This can be done by saying/thinking, “I choose to open my mind” “I choose to open my 3rd eye.” Often this will be a consistent choice made over time as opposed to a one-and-done deal.

-It can be hard when you’re facing your shadow for the first time. I didn’t know how hard it could actually be until I attempted it! Sometimes I felt a fear so intense I wondered if it would be the death of me, and I feel as if you may go through the same experience as well. If you become very afraid while you’re facing your shadow and/or the dark parts of your psyche I recommend disidentifying from the fear itself so that you can see it (the shadow aspect) for what it really is. If you wish you can address the fear at the same moment.

-Patience. I thought that after you disidentified from a negative belief, disidentified from the need for the negative belief, and replaced it with a positive belief the negative mood would simply vanish into thin air. But that’s not necessarily the case! Perhaps you dealt with that one problem correctly but there can be 20 other beliefs that contribute to the crummy mood/bad choices/destructive habits, etc. Please be patient with yourself while you do this, it may take a while to fully emerge on the other side.

-It’s so wonderful on the other side! When every part of you is discovered, disidentified from, and integrated there is a kind of peace and control that makes all of the effort genuinely worth it! And you can begin feeling this way even if you’re halfway through, granted it won’t be as intense or meaningful, but you’re rewarded along the way as well as at the end!

-Also, if you don’t know where to start, let your imagination run wild, ask yourself questions about yourself, and feel/see everything in your inner world with no judgment! 

Conclusion

While the individuation process isn’t very well known it’s very effective for bringing about subjective well-being. My question to you is, are you going to choose to be well/keep being well? 🙂

Thank you for reading my article! This one’s important so I really appreciate your attention, I’ll see you next time! 

Sources

I wrote this post with some help from:

Scott Jeffery

A Positive, Regenerative, Conscious Belief System

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Quick Facts

-It’s very helpful to assume a positive, conscious, regenerative, loving belief system if your current belief system isn’t serving you very well.

-You can always change it and rearrange it to apply to you and your current circumstance!

Intro

I’m glad you made it! You’re reading a post about positive, regenerative, conscious beliefs so I’m quite impressed.

As many of us know beliefs are a very powerful part of our life. Our beliefs can very well be filters for our actions if we embody and act them out, so everyone knows this and does their best to create and live out an amazing belief system that does wonders for them, right?

I wish. But I choose to take it a step beyond a wish – I choose to create an amazing belief system that you can (most likely) adopt and have your life go in an upward spiral. Please keep in mind that this probably isn’t as effective as you creating your own belief system and that it isn’t as effective as not believing anything at all (the state of the mystic). With that said, let’s check it out!

What Counts As A Solid Belief System?

Let me be very careful so I don’t fall into the land of belief while I answer this question:

A solid belief system enables survival, health, sexuality positivity, love, communication, understanding, and the advancement of consciousness.

Why? Well, we have to survive if we’re going to keep playing the game the way we’re playing it. Sexuality, of course. I include psychological, emotional, and physical health since being in pain lowers our chance of survival and since it’s usually an undesirable feeling/way to be. I feel like positivity goes beyond simply being healthy in the sense that it’s regenerative and that it feels good, and because it seems like that’s what life’s all about I’m a certain sense.

Love, of course. Communication because giving and receiving signals that can be transformed into imaginative images and understanding enables our survival and expansion of consciousness. And because understanding and the expansion of consciousness seem to be meaningful and pursuable phenomena in and of themselves!

I include no more and no less because survival, positive feelings, expansion, and more seem to be the name of the game! I’m certainly opposed to any beliefs that are self-limiting, beliefs that aren’t an accurate representation of reality, beliefs that hurt the believer and everyone around them, etc.

What Are The Benefits of A Great Belief System?

Why adopt an amazing belief system, anyway? Isn’t it better to go with what you believe already? 

For some, maybe! However, I wish I had a belief system to adopt when I was younger, I was simply a giant mess. My beliefs were all out of whack and I suspect that writing this down will help you if you’re anything like me!

The benefits, of course, are uninhibited survival, the creating and sustaining of positive emotion including passion, sexuality, confidence, love, intuition, knowledge, and more, the giving and receiving of meaningful communication, the obtaining and sustaining of knowledge and understanding, and the advancement of your self-awareness, self-liberation, and overall consciousness. How does that sound?

The Beliefs

Here are the beliefs themselves:

Survival – “I deserve to survive with no inhibitions.”

“Surviving is easy and effortless.”

“I find fulfillment through taking care of my responsibilities.”

The creating and sustaining of positive emotion – “I feel passionate.”

“I feel sacred.”

“I feel sexual.”

“I feel pleasure.”

“I feel humored and humorous.”

“I feel confident.”

“I feel enthusiastic.”

“I feel love.”

“I feel intuitive”

“I feel like I know.”

“I sustain my positive emotion as long as I choose to.”

“Negative emotion does not distract me from the fact that I am in control of my own emotions.”

Communication – “I communicate effortlessly.”

“I regularly give and receive meaningful communication.”

Knowledge and understanding – “I regularly give and receive meaningful knowledge”

“I understand everything I prompt myself to understand.”

The expansion of consciousness – “I keep an open mind.”

“I regularly expand my consciousness.”

“I choose to open my 3rd eye and keep it open.”

Creating A Belief System

What I’ve added above is a solid body that covers the bases! I have done my best to create a belief system that effortlessly intertwines with itself since cooperation seems to be more meaningful and more effective than competition.

Feel free to add any beliefs you wish to add! You know your situation better than I do so I greatly encourage you to take that into consideration and create your own belief system, like I’ve mentioned above. But if you feel quite depressed, lost, or if you don’t know where to start, here you go! 

Conclusion

Thank you so much for reading my article! I’ll see you next time 🙂

Monogamous or Open Relationships?

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Quick Facts

-Monogamous relationships partially go against our primal biology called The Coolidge Effect! Interestingly enough, monogamous relationships complement our primal biology in other ways, almost as if we were living in a paradox!

-More and more people are having an open mind when it comes to relationships, and you may want to consider which kind of relationship is best for you.

Intro!

I’ve observed many different kinds of couples, some of whom were in a monogamous relationship and some of whom were in an open relationship. It seems to me that many people who agree to a monogamous relationship only do so because they believe they should, they don’t necessarily make their decision with basic biology or their own desires in mind, which leads me to ask an important question; monogamy, or openness?

Monogamous Relationships

Monogamy is the traditional way to have a relationship. One man, one woman, marriage for life with no sexual or romantic conduct with anyone else except for your one person.

My conclusion is that monogamous relationships work especially well with people who are type D: low-energy, meticulous, detail-oriented, steady, and unchanging. Many men and women love the idea of settling down with one person for life and raising a family with them, and these people tend to push their beliefs onto other people as “the way it should be.” Monogamous relationships open the opportunity for trust and steadiness within a partner but also the opportunity to break that trust by having romantic interactions with others. 

Open Relationships

Open relationships are almost the same as monogamous relationships except both partners can have romantic interactions with other people. People in open relationships share their lives with each other, they create memories, raise a family, and love each other, but they also have sex and go on dates with other people.

Being in an open relationship is an amazing option for those who are psychologically and emotionally healthy because it goes along with our primal biology! We have biological wiring that encourages and motivates us to have sex with as many partners as we can. It’s called the Coolidge effect, and it’s the primary reason why we can be so easily “addicted” to porn. I recommend watching this video series on it, it’s super interesting!

Type A, B, and C dominants can find open relationships intriguing, especially Type Bs! I don’t recommend being in an open relationship if you’re prone to jealousy or if you’re emotionally immature as a whole because, in this case, a fling can be considered something more than such.

Is There One, Correct Answer?

First, I recommend pondering what your personal desires are. What do you want? Why do you want it? Coming up with your own, personal preference is far better than any advice I can provide to you here. Maybe it turns out you want neither kind of relationship! Maybe you want something different, or you desire to be single.

Second, I recommend being in an open relationship more-so than a monogamous relationship. I secretly want you to become psychologically and emotionally mature enough to have a healthy open relationship, and if you’re already there I recommend staying open. Why? Because of our primal biology, but also because of how good it feels to be free. You can talk to and do whatever you like with whomever you like without any judgment from your partner! This alone usually makes life healthier than believing you can or cannot act in certain ways, which is always present in a monogamous relationship.

Conclusion

Which will you choose? I can’t wait to find out!

Thank you for reading my article! I’ll see you later! 🙂

Don’t Forget, Guys – She Has Power, But You Do Too!

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Quick Fact

-Many women have a lot of power, but we men do as well! One of the best forms of power we have is divine masculinity.

Intro

Anti-feminist warning! As I write this post I’m realizing exactly how controversial it’s going to be. This post is all about men staying in their positive power around women, so if you believe that men are the patriarchy and that we should be done away with, I encourage you to keep reading more than anyone else ).

I see many men go for and stay with women who they are hardly attracted to, let alone in love with! It’s almost as if women wield the magical ability to turn a guy on, mate with him, then have him want her for the rest of his life, even if she’s detrimental to his wellbeing, and even if he knows that!

I love to address this because if there’s one thing I’ve learned about us men it’s this; you have power too! Let me explain my case!

The Power Dynamic Between Men and Women

Men are (usually) more easily attracted to women than women are attracted to men. Men are like a propane stove and women are like an oven. But what’s interesting to me is the tiny amount of attention many men need compared to the opposite, I’d say that many women could give 1 and get 100 whereas many men would give 10 and get 1. Not to mention the vast amount of things most men are willing to overlook (personality flaws, irritating habits, etc) compared to, what is sometimes, the opposite.

So what gives? I think the basic truth of men feeling attraction far faster than women has a lot to do with it, but that a new truth should also be discussed – men’s attraction for women is far higher and greater than women’s attraction for men, generally speaking. This hypothesis explains the dynamic where the man feels as if he doesn’t deserve his wife (due to his perception of her being too high-class) and the woman feels sad on a deep level, which is a dynamic I see in a lot of places.

Some women even figure this out, that is, just how strong and influential men’s attraction for women can be. Some even use it to manipulate men and get them to do what they want.

But what men need to figure out is that this attraction they feel is, indeed, a feeling and that they can use it as energy to act or speak as they choose! So, if a woman flirts with you but it doesn’t go anywhere, it’s very possible for you to use the energy you’d usually spend fantasizing about her to complete that work project, or even to be romantic to your girlfriend when you get home! 

No matter which emotion you feel and at which time, you always have control in the midst of it. I’m not saying to suppress your emotions, nor am I saying that you should never lose control (IE, for sex and flirting), but I am saying that when you have conscious control of what is done when you feel the attraction (or even the anger), you will be on equal footing with the woman.

Why Do Men Pursue Even If It Hurts Them?

Some men are even willing to sacrifice their well-being to be with their woman. These kinds of men become apparent when the goddess they were dating turns into a manipulation machine after marriage. I suppose you’re still in love with the goddess they were dating? But dude, look at how she treats you!

Part of it is convenience, part of it is an inability/unwillingness to see who she actually is, part of it is ignorance, and part of it is his strong attraction towards her (if he still feels it). The common denominator here is that there’s a stunning lack of self-respect and self-confidence (usually from both sides), and from my experience, confidence is truly the only thing a man needs to be on equal grounds with any woman.

Sometimes (and I’ve even experienced this for myself) a man is confident in every area of his life, except when it comes to his woman. He’ll be intimidated, let her walk all over him, all kinds of stuff… What this kind of man should realize is that he can and should feel confident around her, even if she doesn’t pleasantly respond to it.

Confidence is a regenerative emotion, it helps with your digestive and immune systems, and if someone you’re with is against you being healthy then don’t be around them!

The “Rush and Tension” Effect

Particularly when the relationship is new both parties can fall into something I call the “rush and tension” effect. Flirting, sexual innuendos, not being able to be with each other 24/7, and more can bring up a feeling that’s quite unique in and of itself. Usually, it ends after either the first or first few sexual experiences, but the pursuit for the same feeling (or at least the desire to pursue it) almost always remains after it ends.

It feels really good so it must be worth going for, right? Well… To an extent. I compare it to playing video games, you don’t want to succumb to Halo too often because it’ll be terrible for other parts of your life. You don’t want to succumb to the pursuit of R&T 24/7, consciously or subconsciously, even though that’s often easier said than done.

The best way to eliminate the perceived need for R&T is, once again, confidence. Yellow and red energy. R&T is very orange, and it has its place, but if you or someone you know seems to be pursuing it and it’s ruining their lives, choosing to be confident around women is almost always the best possible solution!

Being In Your Own Power and Space

Besides being an amazing option to repel dangus women, feeling a strong sense of passion and self is truly a fulfilling way to live life as a whole! Being in your own positive energy is physically beneficial, it gives you the best possible chance for the best possible future, it brings you meaning and purpose… All of these things have confidence and passion as their root, and it all begins with a choice. “I choose to feel confident, no matter what happens!” “I choose to feel passionate about life!” 

Having naysayers and people who try to tell you different have their place too – they’ll test you so that you can see if your sense of self is strong enough to overcome their opinions. But ultimately, it’s a choice that’s made on a consistent basis, and if you decide to feel a larger level of confidence and passion than you already do, you’ll interact with women in the way that’s best for the both of you, and not just for her.

Conclusion

Thank you for taking the time to read my article! I understand that this kind of material is counter-feminist but it does happen to be the truth, so that’s the main reason I brought it up!

I encourage you to meditate before reading the next article 🙂