-Sexual energy can be extremely positive and powerful! There are a number of ways we can increase our sexual energy.
Okay, this is going to be one of my explicit posts! I’ll be talking about things of a sexual nature, so continue only if you dare…
One of the more occult-like things I’m aware of is the theory that abstaining from sex and masturbation (particularly orgasm) provides positive energy, helps keep your mood high, and makes you feel more sacred the longer you abstain. I decided to entertain this theory and take note of my observations so that I could understand what the truth is!
Does Chastity Give Energy?
For those of us who don’t know, chastity is synonymous with abstaining from sex (or masturbation). But does it actually give you energy? Does it make you feel sacred? Does it give you a feeling of purity, does it even feel better than sex after a while?
I personally tried chastity for roughly 1 month under the following conditions: I was only allowed to release once per week, and I wasn’t allowed to touch myself (beyond taking a shower) or let anyone else touch me until the end of the week came. At the time I was also working on A Fine Time, a project of mine that was very, very sexually arousing (by the way, I’ll probably end up moving some of AFT’s content over here at some point), and that’s worth keeping in mind when reading my following paragraph.
Each week I had 100+ erections before I released at the week’s end, and I figured out that the more I turned myself on without giving in, the more my body succumbed to something called epididymal hypertension (blue balls). At the end of the week, the hypertension was quite intense; I had trouble sleeping and going to the bathroom on days 5, 6, and 7. And during the last two weeks, I even gave myself conditions and rules to follow on the “special night” that made everything slower and (sometimes) less satisfying than it would normally be!
This made some of the experience fairly unpleasant and I mostly stopped chastising for this very reason. Granted, I could have convinced myself to stop being hypertensive and unsatisfied over time, but I found a better way to reach my goal altogether, more on that later.
The less I was turned on during the week (aka, the fewer erections I had without cumming) the less hypertension I built up over time. I can only imagine that not being turned on throughout the week and just releasing at the end wouldn’t be very fun either! This has led me to conclude that, if you want to chastise for positive energy, it’s a good idea to experiment and see how much you’re willing to let yourself be turned on before your release; too little and you won’t have a whole lotta fun, too much and you may have trouble with other bodily functions.
On days 1-4, it felt like I had the right balance, even though I didn’t. I indeed felt sacred, I had an easier time creating posts, and I felt this orange and white energy in my gut. It was fantastic, and it’s definitely something I recommend you try for yourself… Without getting as aroused as I did! However, having sex and masturbating in the “correct” way can give you these feelings as well, and honestly, a lot of it depends on your beliefs towards sexuality in general.
But let me tell ya about the release itself…
It’s Great For Building Discipline!
Other than the problems I experienced I learned that even if I teased and tormented myself to no end, chastising is an amazing way to build discipline! I feel like so many young (hell, even old) men are so into porn, and they masturbate every day and they get depressed afterward… Instead, if this is you or if this applies to somebody you know, I challenge you to slow down on the porn and to hold your release for as many days as you possibly can. Trust me, it’s worth it.
This kind of discipline can be applied to a career setting as well. I also feel like many people hate their jobs partly because they aren’t able to meet their needs and/or desires right in that moment, so consciously choosing to abstain from something and seeing it as a challenge may be a positive solution to this dilemma!
Also, it’s great for your ego 😉
It’s Great for Building Sexual Tension!
This is quite obvious to most of us, but it can be difficult to put into practice – for obvious reasons!
If you want positive energy I wouldn’t recommend chastising as your main source (from personal experience), but if you’re looking to build sexual tension (with or without your partner) then it’s a wonderful idea! There isn’t a whole lot hotter than telling your partner that neither of you can have sex for a week! And it’ll get even spicier if you throw in the extra rule that you have to send each other 1-3 erotic messages/pictures/videos until the final day! Building sexual tension is the main thing I recommend chastising for.
Let’s Not Forget About Confidence!
All I really wanted was to have positive energy in my life, sexual or not! I didn’t really want to build discipline or sexual tension, I just wanted some positive power. As soon as I figured this out I knew that building confidence was a better way to go about having positive energy in my life.
I enjoy building confidence by consistently choosing to feel confident. Then I act it out, and if I come up against any strong resistance or if I find myself in a situation I find disturbing I’ll sometimes have to remind myself to feel confident once again. It’s a little more complicated than that, but that’s what works for me!
At the end of the day, chastising can be great or ehhh depending on your intention. Do you want to build discipline and/or sexual tension? I say go for it! Do you just wanna feel good and feel positive on a regular basis? It may work for you, but I suggest building confidence and a sense of love instead, or alongside it.
Thank you for reading! I’m glad you made it to the end 😉 see you in the next article!