Who is she? This is the question all ask when they see her for the first time. Young, beautiful, confident.
But, is she confident because of her own efforts? Or is she simply confident because of a naturally high level of serotonin? Was she raised to be confident or did she start from depression and insecurity? Is it not the former for the sole reason that they almost always prefer very large men?
She is desirable, by many men’s standards she is perfect. But is she? Perhaps not if confidence is all she has, for confidence without access to the mind is like a blind fighter swinging her sword. Many confident women are simply confident and lack important traits that comprise a healthy person. I am sure of this, although I am not sure of the remedy. Perhaps it is simply for her to develop herself.
The more serotonin one has in their body, the less aroused they are. So if she’s confident does that mean she won’t care about sex? But, ironically, isn’t the subtle promise of incredible sex her secret allure? The way she walks, the way she talks, the way she carries herself, it screams “if you can catch me you can have me,” so does this mean her confidence is not grounded in the physical world? Or, it is, and when the man finally catches her he comes to discover a great disappointment.
Are these the kinds of women to be manipulative or find manipulative partners? Hardly! However, the partners they find are often just like them – confident and blind. This is a disappointment for me, as I see so much potential in these women, yet so very few actually reach it.