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The Philosophy of The Insecure Man

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Troubled by his mind, who else is to blame but himself? 

At least, that’s what he thinks. In reality, he is only partially to blame; his mind has been sculpted and shaped by many in his life, most of which were insecure and anxious. Even as a young child he knew not to disobey the rules, and perhaps he remembers the punishments he received for doing so. Now, all grown up, he is anxious even when he doesn’t obey the rules, almost as if he lives in constant fear and dreading of what’s to come.

But the solution? For him, it’s to develop confidence. He may ask others, unsure of what the solution may be, but the people he asks are not sure of themselves either. He listens to their advice and takes it to heart, but it does not provide the release that he seeks.

Who is to help him, especially if he believes he doesn’t need it? Is he truly doomed to experience insecurity forever? Often this happens, boys become men but do not shed the anxiety they once felt in their youth, thereby remaining boys in a certain sense. Irrational, angry, fearing boys, boys that refuse help or advice, who only associate with others of the same mind.

Such an unhealthy way to be and this fact may even be known by them! But in the end, they are often faced with two choices – grow into confidence, self-esteem, security, and self-worth, or continue on the path they are on. Sadly, they often choose the latter, and I am pleased when I find a man who chose the former after a start so unfortunate as the one suffered by the insecure man.

Too late, they think, I’m already going down this path. Why change? I have a good job, an amazing wife, great friends, and some hobbies as well. Their veil covers their eye, they don’t see the reality of their situation, even if it’s pointed out to them. Tell me, who can save these men? Can they even be saved? Perhaps they wish to be doomed forever, and perhaps that’s been the truth all along… 

I want to bring them out of their darkness, and much of my work is written with the intent of doing so. Are my efforts in vain? I have decided to transition from helping people into simply dancing in the light, so I will not answer this question, but only ponder it with the wonder and curiosity of a philosopher.

If you come into the light with me, you’ll see what I mean. Your mind will be clear and your soul will become fulfilled. Or don’t, and simply live your life in darkness and agony. 

The Philosophy of The Physically-Minded Man

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Fear and eternity, are these not the two emotions that comprise the physically-minded man? Is his being not gripped by the fear of death, the fear of losing his reputation, the fear of losing his love?

And God, isn’t he his saving grace? What about himself, who has the potential to shine brightly into the lives of others, but so often does not even know of his own will. Such is the state of the physically-minded man.

And his friends, they are just like him. Simply looking out into the world, looking at what needs to be done. They base their self-worth on the tasks they do and the people they provide for, for what better is there to do and see?

Rare is the mental state of the physically-minded man healthy and vibrant, for his feelings are diminished in his perspective and his dreams shan’t be paid much attention to. Any subjectively rich experience is brought up as a passing thought, never to be taken seriously.

But why are they so revered? Why is this simple man so respected and familiar? Perhaps his willpower and determination to get it done even at the expense of his own well-being. His well-being, which he often consciously degrades for no other reason than that “it tastes good.”

Alas, the man who is so revered is also so destructive, so respected yet so detrimental to the earth. When will he learn and substantially change his ways? Never, for this is the curse of the physically-minded man.

And what of his wife and children? Do they stay because they wish to, or because they must? Often it is the latter, some women prefer even the sharpest and most painful of rocks to no rocks at all. They cling to security and survival at the expense of their well-being.

And yet, this man comes across those of sound mind, heart, and being? Why is this? Perhaps it’s because those who are subjectively rich use the physically-minded man as a means of survival, if for no other reason than to boost his ego and reinforce his beliefs. Perhaps it’s even done out of a sense of revenge for the damage he causes others, and the ignorance he spreads to everyone around him. Such is the interesting part of the physically-minded man’s life.

Once his job is complete he finds a new one. He does not sit around and wait, he’ll create things to do without even thinking about it. The endorphins in his system are what keep him from falling into the deep depths of depression that await him as a consequence of no insight. Such is the fear of the physically-minded man.

Terrible? Awful? Unneeded? Unwanted? Maybe all of these things and more. Poor mental hygiene? Bottomless insecurity? No hope for change and insight? Most likely. The low-vibrational state of the physically-minded man will most likely only end once he is dead, and those of the mind breathe a sigh of relief before our attention is turned to another, perhaps even worse, case to be consoled.

Is there any hope? Any way to avoid the consequences of their actions? Very little, since they are all around us. Raise them right, teach them all they ought to know as children, and they will retain it for the rest of their life. Such is the state of the physically-minded man. But once they are mature, look out and stand up for yourself against them, especially if you are healthy and pure of heart.

Monogamous or Open Relationships?

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Quick Facts

-Monogamous relationships partially go against our primal biology called The Coolidge Effect! Interestingly enough, monogamous relationships complement our primal biology in other ways, almost as if we were living in a paradox!

-More and more people are having an open mind when it comes to relationships, and you may want to consider which kind of relationship is best for you.

Intro!

I’ve observed many different kinds of couples, some of whom were in a monogamous relationship and some of whom were in an open relationship. It seems to me that many people who agree to a monogamous relationship only do so because they believe they should, they don’t necessarily make their decision with basic biology or their own desires in mind, which leads me to ask an important question; monogamy, or openness?

Monogamous Relationships

Monogamy is the traditional way to have a relationship. One man, one woman, marriage for life with no sexual or romantic conduct with anyone else except for your one person.

My conclusion is that monogamous relationships work especially well with people who are type D: low-energy, meticulous, detail-oriented, steady, and unchanging. Many men and women love the idea of settling down with one person for life and raising a family with them, and these people tend to push their beliefs onto other people as “the way it should be.” Monogamous relationships open the opportunity for trust and steadiness within a partner but also the opportunity to break that trust by having romantic interactions with others. 

Open Relationships

Open relationships are almost the same as monogamous relationships except both partners can have romantic interactions with other people. People in open relationships share their lives with each other, they create memories, raise a family, and love each other, but they also have sex and go on dates with other people.

Being in an open relationship is an amazing option for those who are psychologically and emotionally healthy because it goes along with our primal biology! We have biological wiring that encourages and motivates us to have sex with as many partners as we can. It’s called the Coolidge effect, and it’s the primary reason why we can be so easily “addicted” to porn. I recommend watching this video series on it, it’s super interesting!

Type A, B, and C dominants can find open relationships intriguing, especially Type Bs! I don’t recommend being in an open relationship if you’re prone to jealousy or if you’re emotionally immature as a whole because, in this case, a fling can be considered something more than such.

Is There One, Correct Answer?

First, I recommend pondering what your personal desires are. What do you want? Why do you want it? Coming up with your own, personal preference is far better than any advice I can provide to you here. Maybe it turns out you want neither kind of relationship! Maybe you want something different, or you desire to be single.

Second, I recommend being in an open relationship more-so than a monogamous relationship. I secretly want you to become psychologically and emotionally mature enough to have a healthy open relationship, and if you’re already there I recommend staying open. Why? Because of our primal biology, but also because of how good it feels to be free. You can talk to and do whatever you like with whomever you like without any judgment from your partner! This alone usually makes life healthier than believing you can or cannot act in certain ways, which is always present in a monogamous relationship.

Conclusion

Which will you choose? I can’t wait to find out!

Thank you for reading my article! I’ll see you later! 🙂

On Competition

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Quick Fact

-We normally engage in competition to feel good, however, we can obtain the same feelings by other, more effective means! 

Intro

Competition, as we very well know, is extremely popular in our modern society today. It comes in forms varying from sports to conversations to partners to wars, and it seems like we can’t get enough of it. Watching sports in America is so popular that it almost defines America, and of course almost every country values war, an extreme form of competition… So what gives?

You know, there’s a person in my life who is extremely hypercompetitive. He’s the most competitive person I’ve ever seen in real life or TV, and it’s ruining (or otherwise greatly inhibiting) his life on every possible dimension. I began to question the point and goal of competition before, but meeting this guy made me question it even more… Until I arrived at my stark conclusions! Let’s take a look at the nature of competition, shall we?

The Nature of Competition, What The Goal Is

So, we have two basketball teams trying to win a game. Why?

Part of this is simply a biological urge. Testosterone, to be exact – the higher your level of testosterone the more competitive you’re likely to be. 

I’m fairly certain that we developed this chemical because we faced a lot of threats in our primal years. It helped by giving us the “alpha” mindset, “I deserve to live and you don’t,” and this mindset combined with physical strength made it possible for us to kill enough oncoming threats to survive into the modern age. We probably developed serotonin and/or dopamine alongside testosterone because our bodies wanted us to feel good right after we defended our families, almost as a source of motivation!

So nowadays we have many men who know how it feels to “win,” to be the alpha, to be dominant over others. We enjoy feeling good, so we compete in sports and try to win because we know winning feels good. Or we try to dominate the conversation. Or we boss our partner around. Or… Well, it can be a number of things. Plus, we feel other endorphins while our body is moving, and these feel great as well.

Competition is a very primal, biological state of being with a simple goal – survive and feel good. Often we don’t even know why we compete, but so much of our country and our world is so obsessed with it because we want to feel the good stuff, and because we don’t understand better ways of obtaining said good stuff.

The Positives and The Negatives

The positives are:

-Competition (competing in sports, etc) makes us feel good through physical movement and teamwork

-Competition where there isn’t much physical movement still feels good via winning and teamwork 

-It’s easy and simple to initiate and carry out consistently.

-Almost everyone on the planet enjoys watching or participating in some form of competition, which means it’s a great way to relate to people.

And the negatives are:

-As it stands many of us are far too obsessed with it, some of us even going so far as to ignore our spouses and/or children to watch the game.

-it’s very very pushed in almost every single country in one form or another, we love to prioritize it over literally everything else. Consequently, many of us weren’t raised right and yearn for “the thing we can’t explain.” 

-The majority of us who are consumed by competitive spirits often stay there for life, and that life is often a low-vibrational and unfulfilling life.

In my opinion, the negatives are far too detrimental to be ignored! Some of us have a healthy view towards competition and we take it quite lightly, but it’s worth continuing for the same of those who are simply enraptured by the competitive spirit.

How To Reach The Goal In Better (More Effective) Ways

Feeling good and surviving isn’t very difficult! It especially doesn’t require us to be consumed by competitive spirits – a healthy balance between healthy competition and doing other things in life will often be the best way to reach our goal of “surviving and feeling good.”

I encourage you to ask yourself, “in which areas of my life do I want to take action? Where do I cut back and where do I move forward? And why, exactly?” Once you know exactly where and why you want to take action, taking the action itself will probably feel more meaningful overall.

There are other ways such as deep meditation. You can choose to feel good whenever you want, and I especially direct this next point to the militarily-minded among us – psychedelics. Ironically, the ones who make and enforce the law against psychedelics are the ones who need (and benefit from) them the most!

Don’t discount a healthy diet, a healthy social life, and a healthy relationship. Learning how to build the necessary skills to have these things will take some time but I 100% recommend that everybody do this as well as you/they possibly can.

Conclusion

In the end, being too obsessed with competition isn’t very healthy for you or anyone around you. If you’re already healthy and you enjoy watching the game then that’s fine! But there are always different (dare I say, better!) ways to achieve the goal that competition wishes to achieve, especially when it comes to war. Every soldier should meditate and take psychedelics, period! Then they’ll see how great their war really is!

Thank you for reading! I’ll see you in the next article 🙂

Don’t Forget, Guys – She Has Power, But You Do Too!

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Quick Fact

-Many women have a lot of power, but we men do as well! One of the best forms of power we have is divine masculinity.

Intro

Anti-feminist warning! As I write this post I’m realizing exactly how controversial it’s going to be. This post is all about men staying in their positive power around women, so if you believe that men are the patriarchy and that we should be done away with, I encourage you to keep reading more than anyone else ).

I see many men go for and stay with women who they are hardly attracted to, let alone in love with! It’s almost as if women wield the magical ability to turn a guy on, mate with him, then have him want her for the rest of his life, even if she’s detrimental to his wellbeing, and even if he knows that!

I love to address this because if there’s one thing I’ve learned about us men it’s this; you have power too! Let me explain my case!

The Power Dynamic Between Men and Women

Men are (usually) more easily attracted to women than women are attracted to men. Men are like a propane stove and women are like an oven. But what’s interesting to me is the tiny amount of attention many men need compared to the opposite, I’d say that many women could give 1 and get 100 whereas many men would give 10 and get 1. Not to mention the vast amount of things most men are willing to overlook (personality flaws, irritating habits, etc) compared to, what is sometimes, the opposite.

So what gives? I think the basic truth of men feeling attraction far faster than women has a lot to do with it, but that a new truth should also be discussed – men’s attraction for women is far higher and greater than women’s attraction for men, generally speaking. This hypothesis explains the dynamic where the man feels as if he doesn’t deserve his wife (due to his perception of her being too high-class) and the woman feels sad on a deep level, which is a dynamic I see in a lot of places.

Some women even figure this out, that is, just how strong and influential men’s attraction for women can be. Some even use it to manipulate men and get them to do what they want.

But what men need to figure out is that this attraction they feel is, indeed, a feeling and that they can use it as energy to act or speak as they choose! So, if a woman flirts with you but it doesn’t go anywhere, it’s very possible for you to use the energy you’d usually spend fantasizing about her to complete that work project, or even to be romantic to your girlfriend when you get home! 

No matter which emotion you feel and at which time, you always have control in the midst of it. I’m not saying to suppress your emotions, nor am I saying that you should never lose control (IE, for sex and flirting), but I am saying that when you have conscious control of what is done when you feel the attraction (or even the anger), you will be on equal footing with the woman.

Why Do Men Pursue Even If It Hurts Them?

Some men are even willing to sacrifice their well-being to be with their woman. These kinds of men become apparent when the goddess they were dating turns into a manipulation machine after marriage. I suppose you’re still in love with the goddess they were dating? But dude, look at how she treats you!

Part of it is convenience, part of it is an inability/unwillingness to see who she actually is, part of it is ignorance, and part of it is his strong attraction towards her (if he still feels it). The common denominator here is that there’s a stunning lack of self-respect and self-confidence (usually from both sides), and from my experience, confidence is truly the only thing a man needs to be on equal grounds with any woman.

Sometimes (and I’ve even experienced this for myself) a man is confident in every area of his life, except when it comes to his woman. He’ll be intimidated, let her walk all over him, all kinds of stuff… What this kind of man should realize is that he can and should feel confident around her, even if she doesn’t pleasantly respond to it.

Confidence is a regenerative emotion, it helps with your digestive and immune systems, and if someone you’re with is against you being healthy then don’t be around them!

The “Rush and Tension” Effect

Particularly when the relationship is new both parties can fall into something I call the “rush and tension” effect. Flirting, sexual innuendos, not being able to be with each other 24/7, and more can bring up a feeling that’s quite unique in and of itself. Usually, it ends after either the first or first few sexual experiences, but the pursuit for the same feeling (or at least the desire to pursue it) almost always remains after it ends.

It feels really good so it must be worth going for, right? Well… To an extent. I compare it to playing video games, you don’t want to succumb to Halo too often because it’ll be terrible for other parts of your life. You don’t want to succumb to the pursuit of R&T 24/7, consciously or subconsciously, even though that’s often easier said than done.

The best way to eliminate the perceived need for R&T is, once again, confidence. Yellow and red energy. R&T is very orange, and it has its place, but if you or someone you know seems to be pursuing it and it’s ruining their lives, choosing to be confident around women is almost always the best possible solution!

Being In Your Own Power and Space

Besides being an amazing option to repel dangus women, feeling a strong sense of passion and self is truly a fulfilling way to live life as a whole! Being in your own positive energy is physically beneficial, it gives you the best possible chance for the best possible future, it brings you meaning and purpose… All of these things have confidence and passion as their root, and it all begins with a choice. “I choose to feel confident, no matter what happens!” “I choose to feel passionate about life!” 

Having naysayers and people who try to tell you different have their place too – they’ll test you so that you can see if your sense of self is strong enough to overcome their opinions. But ultimately, it’s a choice that’s made on a consistent basis, and if you decide to feel a larger level of confidence and passion than you already do, you’ll interact with women in the way that’s best for the both of you, and not just for her.

Conclusion

Thank you for taking the time to read my article! I understand that this kind of material is counter-feminist but it does happen to be the truth, so that’s the main reason I brought it up!

I encourage you to meditate before reading the next article 🙂